jealousy

When jealousy bubbles up, it can go unnoticed and explode with the same intensity as a Mento mint dropped into an one liter soda bottle.

When jealousy bubbles up, it can blindside relationships by not communicating well and misunderstanding text messages.

When jealousy bubbles up, take a step back, breathe, extract away from what is actually going on.

Is it – the fact he told you that there are too many calls, that the clinginess is too much, that his eyes are wandering because there is some distance between?

Is it – the fact you are more busy than her and you are taking the time out of your day to try and remain in contact?

When jealousy bubbles up, take a step back, think about what you have expressed so far and what he knows from you.

Is it – the possibility that he just doesn’t know that he is no longer such an immediate priority?

Is it – the possibility that she just doesn’t know you are worried you are going to fall in the same loop of distancing, disconnecting, and eventually, disappearing?

When jealousy bubbles up, breathe.